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Christmas And Grieving

Coping with Christmas following the loss of a loved one can be an emotionally challenging experience. The holiday season often magnifies feelings of grief and loneliness. Whilst I cannot know what you’re going through, or take away the pain, I hope that these suggestions will help in some way.  Think of this blog as a long distance, technological hug.


  • Acknowledge Your Feelings:

  • It's okay to feel a range of emotions during the holidays. Allow yourself to grieve and acknowledge the pain you're experiencing. Give yourself permission to feel whatever emotions arise.

  • Create New Traditions or Modify Old Ones:

  • Consider creating new traditions that honour the memory of your loved one or modify existing ones to make them more manageable. This can help you feel a connection to the past while adapting to the present reality.

  • Include Your Loved One's Memory:

  • Find ways to incorporate your loved one's memory into the holiday celebrations. Light a candle in their honour, share stories, or create a memorial space with photos and mementos.

  • Communicate with Family and Friends:

  • Share your feelings with those close to you. Let them know if you need support or if certain traditions are too difficult to handle. Communicating openly can help others understand and provide the support you need.

  • Plan Ahead:

  • Consider planning ahead for the holiday season. Decide in advance which events or traditions you feel comfortable participating in, and communicate your plans with others. Having a plan can help reduce anxiety.

  • Seek Support:

  • Surround yourself with supportive friends, family, or a grief support group. Talking to others who have experienced similar losses can provide comfort and understanding.

  • Take Care of Yourself:

  • Grieving can be physically and emotionally draining. Make self-care a priority. Get enough rest, eat well, and engage in activities that bring you comfort and peace.

  • Create a Personal Ritual:

  • Establish a personal ritual or ceremony to honour your loved one during the holiday season. This could be as simple as writing a letter, creating a scrapbook, or visiting a special place that holds memories.

  • Express Your Emotions Creatively:

  • Express your emotions through creative outlets such as writing, art, or music. Creative expression can be therapeutic and provide an outlet for your grief.

  • Be Kind to Yourself:

  • Understand that grief doesn't follow a specific timeline, and everyone processes it differently. Be patient and kind to yourself as you navigate the holiday season.

  • Consider Seeking Professional Help:

  • If the grief feels overwhelming or if you're struggling to cope, consider seeking support from a mental health professional. They can provide guidance and tools to help you navigate through this challenging time.


Remember that grieving is a unique and personal process. It's okay to find your own way of coping with the holidays, and there's no right or wrong way to do it. Give yourself the space and time you need to heal, and reach out for support when necessary.

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